10 Reasons To NOT Commit To Yourself
There are plenty of reasons to NOT commit to yourself:
You tell yourself you can’t afford it.
You tell yourself you don’t have the time.
You have to be there for your kids/partner/family even more.
You have to prove yourself at work right now.
You think you aren’t worth investing in yourself.
You have so many other commitments that you can’t dedicate time to yourself.
You just don’t feel right putting your resources, or your family’s resources, towards you.
You are scared to talk to your partner about doing self work and think it will jeopardize your relationship.
You don't think anything will change.
You’re not ready enough yet.
If your reason isn't on this list, add it!
I'll pause here to say, there are MANY very real reasons and seasons of your life when you're simply not in a place to focus on you. And, I'm not talking about those conscious moments of pause, but I am naming the many excuses that that mask themselves as reasons.
Now that we’ve gotten some of those out of the way, I’ll say it.
We’re conditioned as women, especially highly successful women, to choose supporting others, not to put time and resources into yourself.
I imagine you’ve maybe even been praised for choosing and supporting others with exactly what they want and need! We’re even taught the lie that focusing on ourselves can make us a “selfish partner”, “bad mother”, “ungrateful daughter”, “disloyal worker”, and a “self-centered friend.”
And yet when we do choose to make space for ourselves:
🌱 Magic happens.
💨 Openings happen.
🔥 Energy happens.
🌊 Love happens.
There’s hundreds of reasons to NOT commit and really only ONE reason to...because you know that you don’t want to look back on your life and say you didn’t choose you.
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If you feel called to explore what committing to you would shift in your life, feel free to apply and we'll get on an open hearted consultation call to feel into it together.
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I’m excited to call in those women who are ready to commit to themselves and see the magic unfold! ✨
With ♡ and gratitude,
Jennifer